NEW YORK (AP) — Talking about beauty can get really ugly — particularly when it comes to public figures. Some called for respecting her privacy, while others said the influence of celebrities on young fans made it a valid topic. Fundamentally, many experts say, it’s no one’s place to pass judgment on someone’s body, celebrity or otherwise. For parents talking with children, Goldman suggests shifting the conversation away from judging bodies to talking about the messages society is sending. ___If you or someone you know have body image or eating concerns, the National Alliance for Eating Disorders has a helpline at (866) 662-1235.