Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. In the past, he has done some pretty bad things, including using me, stealing from me, and generally being an asshole. He is unable to feel empathy. —Sociopath LoverDear Sociopath Lover,I wouldn’t say it’s impossible to have a successful relationship with someone who can’t feel empathy. Putting his diagnosis and private feelings aside, I’d say he’s better than before but still not the man for you.