I ran restaurants for years before I sold up, and I got strangely good at clocking those people. Because that one small move told me something about them that half an hour of polite conversation never would. Once you see the work, you can’t unsee itI think this is the part people miss. Most effort is built to look effortlessThe job, done well, is to make the job disappear. Think of a flight attendant staying calm through turbulence, or a waiter who’s delighted to see you walk in at 10:55pm.