Patterns of Behavior of an Exploitative DaterInconsistent communication and level of engagement: Sometimes they text or call. They don’t usually go out of their way to coordinate or work around your life, schedule, or commitments. They sometimes do nice things:They do nice things for you here and there. The Cost of Dating an Exploitative DaterWhen you are dating an exploitative dater, it's hard not to get hooked. It's Time to Date With IntentionWhile you may have chemistry with an exploitative dater (aka a f*ckboy), chemistry alone is not enough.