Which brings us, not quite but almost, to Ariana Grande, whom we are now about to discuss. The dietitian then dispassionately pointed out that Grande’s body, at least the parts that were visible, fit nearly every criteria. But while Grande’s body is her own business, how it affects us and how we react to it is ours. I do not want to have a conversation where I tell her what to think about Ariana Grande’s body, or explain that we live in a world where we think about her body at all. Because none of this is really about Ariana Grande.