What do you actually say when a growth-mindset observation lands wrong — and the person on the other end gets defensive instead of curious? In this episode, Eartha shares practical, ready-to-use language for exactly that moment: the short phrases that redirect a conversation without triggering more defensiveness (“Not yet.” — and the deeper skill underneath them: staying grounded in your own growth mindset even when someone else isn’t. We also talk about why this works better as a repeated practice than a one-time conversation — small, consistent language shifts change behavior faster than trying to win someone over in a single talk. If you’ve ever needed the right words in the moment a conversation started to go sideways, this episode is for you.