There is a grim familiarity to the tragic deaths of two women in the news this week. They got engaged, but on July 7 her daughter Michaela – aged just 13 – found her mother dead in her bedroom. Afterwards, her killer bought beer, returned to the hotel – and was captured on CCTV dancing and laughing in the hotel car park. It’s why so many young women were drawn to dangerous revolutionaries such as Che Guevara, or why the world swooned over James Dean. Witness the women on the beaches at Calais, helping young men into their dinghies, getting between them and the authorities.