Jennifer Lopez reportedly had an affair with Sean 'Diddy' Combs during her first marriage. Jennifer Lopez’s first husband, Ojani Noa, spoke out about her relationship with Sean “Diddy” Combs. Jennifer Lopez’s first husband said he physically confronted Sean ‘Diddy’ CombsNoa married Lopez in 1997. They met in Miami, at the restaurant where Noa worked. Jennifer Lopez’s first husband spoke about the moment they metNoa worked at Gloria and Emilio Estefan’s restaurant, Lario’s on the Beach.