The Bachelor and The Bachelorette have been on for 84 long, deranged years (okay, just a little over 20, but still! Add to Google settingsBuuuut emotions also crash and burn fast, and many Bachelor Nation relationships don’t last beyond the show. In fact, most Bachelor ’ships end after a few months thanks to reality just hitting differently than reality TV. But there are a few notable and very cute exceptions if you’re in the mood to cling to hope and scream, “BACHELOR LOVE IS REAL!” We may never see The Bachelorette season 22 with Taylor Frankie Paul, but I can present to you all the Bachelor Nation couples who actually stayed together.