When my wife's massage therapist called me and said I needed to attend her next appointment, I assumed something had gone wrong with her treatment. So when her massage therapist called me out of the blue on a Tuesday afternoon, I assumed something terrible had happened. The man didn't answer immediately, and when he finally spoke, his voice was gentle. Linda didn't respond immediately. For five months, she'd known, she'd carried this alone, she'd looked me in the eye every single day and never said a word.