My Wife Says We’re “Responsible” for Letting the Family Cool Off at Our Pool. But I’m the One Who Has to Deal With the Consequences.

My wife expects me to “just deal with it,” and my in-laws claim that it’s never their kids who are responsible. —Pool Problems (he/him)Dear Pool Problems,I think you’re talking to the wrong people here. You can always regularly encourage the kids during pool time to step out and hit the bathroom, too, say every hour or so. —School StressAdvertisementAdvertisementDear School Stress,There are a lot of kids who don’t feel comfortable around other kids. I don’t know what to say to her, but I’m definitely not letting her do cheer.