A few days ago, I searched for the definition of the word "gaslighting' for a bit I was working on for my radio show. It turns out that New Jersey's 10 most-searched words are a very interesting list. What the Words We Are Searching For Say About UsAccording to Word Unscrambler, a website that helps you with word games, the words we are searching for today say plenty about society. From love and justice to democracy and integrity, people are searching for words that help them understand ideas, values and human behavior. New Jersey's Most Searched Word Definitions1.