How do you tell if you’re a truly grateful person? Big, Middle, and Mini StoriesThis is the second post in a mini-series on the narrative approach to understanding gratitude. The 4Gs of Grateful StoriesStories are not unfiltered windows into the self. But I wouldn’t simply count how often someone uses the words “grateful” or “gratitude.” I suspect the following four themes are likely to appear in grateful stories: gifts, grace, givers, and generosity.