She doesn’t work, doesn’t have a driver’s license, doesn’t clean and rarely cooks. I work 60 hours a week to provide for our family and am not receiving any help from my wife. — DOING EVERYTHING IN NEW HAMPSHIREDEAR DOING EVERYTHING: You state that your wife doesn’t work, doesn’t drive, doesn’t clean and rarely cooks. DEAR ABBY: My daughter added her girlfriend to our family group chat last December. How do we get her off the family group chat and stop her from being so invasive in our lives without hurting our daughter?