But like most problems, the not-doing isn’t the real problem; it’s the outcome of another problem lurking beneath. You don’t do it because you don’t want to or don’t see it as a high priority. You know it’s important to them, and, following your values, you’re willing to step up and do it. AntidoteFigure out where you’re getting stuck most. You seem like a bully to others and can feel like a victim when things don’t go your way.