‘He doesn’t mind spending part of his time on the West Coast, but his life is really on the East Coast. Jim, 50, by contrast, is an East Coast native through and through. While Jen made every effort to embrace East Coast living, the intense spotlight and lack of privacy in New York proved challenging. After enduring very public marriages to Brad Pitt and Justin, Jen has understandably kept her latest romance more private. ‘Jim keeps telling Jen there’s no rush to make any huge decisions, and that they’ll figure it out together.