In 65 short years, many women have been taught to fear and distrust men. When women constantly challenge them, men will "cop-out" of marriage and family. Now that love and marriage have been "discredited," women have nothing left to exchange for love but sex. In order to destroy the family, the media convinced women that they could not rely on the heterosexual contract. Magazines like Glamour and Cosmopolitan urge young women to "put out on their first date,"ogle men openly" and be an athlete in bed.