But Harbour stans say they were in an open relationship and Allen should be ‘grown up about the rules’ and not air out any more dirty laundry in public. How dare you even ask us this, Ed, about our personal best friend, Lily Allen and what she’s been through?’ She then insists ‘there are no rules in an open relationship’, heckling at the show’s host: ‘Ed, grow up!’ The pair co-parented Allen’s children from her previous relationship (Picture: Arturo Holmes/WireImage)But Harbour stayed quiet until admitting the album was ‘weird’ in an interview with Variety in June. In spite of the fact that a lot of people don’t allow me a private life — I value it.