Unlike the usual tongue-in-cheek tone of the viral trend, Gilson was serious. Her estranged husband Jeremiah “Shawn” Duffey was under investigation over allegations he inappropriately touched a girl he coached on a basketball team. Know the news with the 7NEWS app: Download today ArrowAnd it seems he was none too happy about the video, which Gilson had posted to her more than 78,000 followers. They were later identified as Gilson and Duffey, with police confirming Duffey had fatally shot Gilson before turning the gun on himself. The child who raised the alarm was taken into protective custody and later released to his other parent.