And In the City's Kenny Martin knows that for a fact following his contentious feud with costar Lindsay Hubbard during season one of the Bravo reality series. "I respect the hell out of Lindsay because she's built an amazing career for 10 years. The show wouldn't be a show without Lindsay," Kenny explained to E!' "But she is very much like a, 'You're either with me or you're not,' and if you're not, it can get very ugly." From their first meeting on camera, when Lindsay questioned Kenny’s relationship with girlfriend Whitney Fransway, the Summer House star and the couple butted heads.