GettyDanny DeVito, 81, and Rhea Perlman, 78, separated in 2017, but they haven’t gotten divorced after all these years. In an interview with AARP, Devito opened up on the status of their relationship. So, that’s a good relationship,” DeVito went on. Danny and Rhea share three adult kids: Lucy, 43, Grace, 41, and Jacob, 38. Danny and Rhea started dating in 1971 and wed in 1982.