What if you're not in the wrong relationship, but in a chapter that neither of you has ever navigated before? A relationship that worked before infertility or fertility treatment may not be the same relationship that carries you through it. Instead of asking:What's wrong with me/my partner or our marriage? But paying attention to how infertility itself is affecting the relationship can help protect and strengthen it. Or perhaps the real question is not what infertility takes from a relationship but what the two of you choose to protect through it.