Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear Prudence,My husband “Martin” retired five months ago and now refuses to shower more than once a week. You’ve already kicked him out of your bedroom, so maybe it is time to kick him off your priority list. You can bring a man to water, but you can’t make him get in the water and wash his ass. I’m not a supermodel, but I still try to look nice when I’m not working.