Director and singer Vishal Bhardwaj, on The Kapil Sharma Show, once spoke about the importance of calling people out. During a movie promotion, he shared, “Mujhe apni sharafat se chid hoti hai. When ‘sharafat’ starts feeling heavy“When someone says they feel irritated by their own ‘sharafat,’ it is rarely a rejection of kindness,” says Dr Bhosale. “What remains unspoken does not disappear,” Dr Bhosale notes. ALSO READ | Are you a people-pleaserHow to be assertive without guiltAssertiveness, Dr Bhosale clarifies, is not aggression.