“Just face it; you’re going to be a blubbering wreck.” A momentary flashback to my “pagan days” in college told me that this was going to be different for her. “You know, you’re confused about a few things,” he gently chided. And now is the time you’re going to step back? Are you prepared to spend more time with me — in daily Mass, in adoration, praying rosaries, novenas, whatever it takes?”