What the evidence does support is a more interesting distinction: purpose can enrich a life, while the demand that every day prove its purpose can impoverish one. Savouring does not require an afternoon to lead somewhere. Routines can hold a life without judging itThis may seem to contradict my earlier article arguing that meaningful routines help retirement feel coherent. Missing a day does not threaten the identity. The day does not have to make a case for itselfAt thirty-seven, I am still surrounded by measurement.