But in some cases, it's a sign you're dating someone who's emotionally unavailable. So, what does an emotionally unavailable person look like? “We’re so excited about the person and the potential of this person that we don’t notice these small things.” “If someone either ignores your bids for connection or kind of dismisses them or shares disinterest, I would say that’s another emotionally unavailable sign,” Cash says. “An emotionally available person is really interested in connecting with you instead of thinking ‘me, me, me,’ all the time.”