Up until the morning of our wedding day these women were trying to pressure me into making changes and spending money i didn’t have. Get married in the morning so you can spend the rest of the day partying and having fun on your wedding day! I really wish we would have hired someone to take a few posed pictures at the park or something. I would have held it in a different location, one that suited my personality more because I like different things now that I'm older. just do anything that doesn't make it feel like I worked instead of just enjoying my wedding day.