However, she also pointed to Cooke’s shifted focus as the other major factor in their sexless marriage. “He would work all day, work all night, then come to bed, tell me an email, and then try to have sex with me. Batula continued, describing the last years of her marriage as an “unfortunate storm.” “Then the depression hit also, and then it was just an unfortunate storm. Bravo/NBCUniversal/Getty ImagesBatula and Cooke married in 2021, before announcing their divorce at the beginning of 2026.