In the world of psychology, we call this Disenfranchised Grief. When I received a booklet titled “Losing Your Brother or Sister” and read how sibling loss is not recognized as important, I became very angry. Jesus didn’t tell them to calm down. I felt like because my mother lost her child, my own grief had been erased. If you are a sibling standing in the shadow of someone else’s “bigger” grief, please hear me: Your anger isn’t a sin.