He has been unemployed for about two-thirds of the time he has lived with us, yet he has taken on little housework. My brother-in-law responds that we expect him to do “all” of the housework and that my partner is being “mean to him.” I know it is unfair to place all responsibility for managing my brother-in-law on my partner. If that’s the case, you should simply ask your brother-in-law to find somewhere else to live, giving him reasonable notice. — BradThe post Do I Have to Keep Housing My Slovenly, Unemployed Brother-in-Law?