Dear How to Do It,A few months ago, I got into a serious automobile accident. I wasn’t terribly injured, but the other party was, and she died the next day from the collision injuries. Her life wouldn’t have been affected whether you masturbated to her work or not; certainly, her death isn’t affected either. Think about it some more and do your best to figure out why this person has become an erotic fixation. The “I’m not even sure why” is an important part of your letter, and it’s for you to figure out.