Kenyan woman sparks debate after claiming white men treat women bettter than Kenyan men. For Anne, the relationship was equally unfamiliar territory for those close to her. She said she found that white men tend to show up more in the domestic space in ways that Kenyan men often do not. "I feel like they treat women better in terms of, they some Kenyan men won't even help with house, but for like these people they really help their women," she said. For Harold, settling into rural Kenyan life meant adjusting to realities far removed from American comforts, including bucket showers, power outages, and a pace of daily life shaped by village routines.