But somewhere between comparison, unrealistic expectations, and trying to become someone else’s version of success, I slowly lost sight of the woman God had created me to be. Motherhood changes your body. But here’s what I’ve come to believe:Motherhood may change your season, but it should never change your identity. But the woman God had already created me to be. Separate Your Identity From Your RolesOne of the greatest mistakes I made was allowing motherhood to become my entire identity.