When looking for a partner, it's normal to try to find our perfect match, our soulmate, 'The One'. That's the dream, really, but we also can't help but wonder if our absolute 'other half' really exists. Does personality influence our choice of partner, and is it most important when it comes to maintaining a healthy and lasting relationship? "Opposites may attract, but a relationship between two people with opposing traits doesn't guarantee success," she says. Sometimes, choosing the right partner means learning to listen to yourself first," she concludes.