DEAR ABBY: After a four-year battle with cancer, my husband of 27 years passed away. I told him how much I appreciated it and I would call if I felt he could help. He was seeing other people behind my back, and when I found out, I broke up with him. I'm not beautiful, I don't have a "killer body" and I don't have a lot of money. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.