In fact, Sean wasn't just a man—he was a man in medicine who was previously in the military. We tell men that there are all these options available to them, but they don't feel safe. ‘This Is a Lifelong Journey’I don’t think I could have ever predicted suicide or prevented it. We must all support men and learn how make them feel safe when reaching out for support. That doesn't mean we don't feel it or that we don't have bad days.