FALL IS A SEASON OF CHANGE—and for some men, that shift goes beyond cooler weather. [These] life events may serve as an impetus to evaluate and self-author oneself.”And while that process can seem daunting, it can also be liberating. And, even if it’s not one of these cities, simply moving to a new place can offer the opportunity for queer men to start fresh and reintroduce themselves to the world. “I’ve spoken with queer men who’ve come out later in life and in the process they grapple with their sense of self, or try to ‘reinvent’ a wholly new self. “I’m pleased to have a chance to go out and meet other gay men in my age group.