From manipulative love bombers to shifting views on long-term relationships, it’s getting harder and harder to find someone trustworthy. That’s why it’s recommended to look out for early signs, which may signal what kind of person you’re dealing with. #1 On your second date, your date pulls out a detailed plan for the day. ADVERTISEMENT#6 While hanging out in the park, you notice your date is great around kids. They never act disrespectful or mean towards you or others, but it almost feels like hanging out with different people every other night.