Don’t spank your kids, because it shows that you’re a poor communicator. Every time you spank your kid, you’re taking your potential best friend and you’re making them your enemy. You’re hurting your potential best friend,” Wayans said. Related: Marlon Wayans Sends Powerful Message With ‘Unconditional Love’ of Transgender Son“Don’t spank your kids because that shows you’re a poor communicator.” Marlon Wayans advises parents not to spank their kids, explaining that every time you spank your kid, you’re taking a potential best friend and making them your worst enemy.