Paul O'Grady's grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death. After a 'lengthy' application process, his widow, Andre Portasio, took to Paul's Instagram account on Friday to announce that he has placed the 'final design' of Paul's headstone at his grave. Paul's headstone is dark grey and bears Paul's name as well as the name of his former long-term partner, Brendan Murphy. Paul O'Grady's grave finally has a headstone two and a half years after his death. I hope he would be pleased with the final design.