I scrolled on Instagram as we talked, watching the celebrities roll into Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s wedding at Madison Square Garden. “I got a text but I thought it was spam,” he told me, sounding defensive. “But it’s Taylor Swift!” I’ve never considered myself a die-hard Swiftie, but as a therapist, I understand the impact of young women hearing their experiences play out in her songs. “I wanted to go because it would give me a bit of hope,” I told Garret.