When a well-meaning misadventure in 2022 left my life in shambles, a friend suggested I try the phone sex operator platform NiteFlirt. He resented our access to the middle class email jobs he wanted reserved for white male heads of household. In this, at least, he was ideologically consistent—unlike many white men with similar tastes, it was essential to Michael that his wife's lover be of Aryan descent. A Peek Behind the CurtainThe most important lesson I learned as a Flirt was to take notes after each call. Make America Gag AgainIt's been approximately one year since I last took calls on NiteFlirt, having quiet-quit sex work in mid-2025.