Dennis, a 62-year-old father, met with me a few months after his oldest son, Luke, had left home for college. It was a horrible time…”Gradually, Dennis told me, things began to improve, and in an overall sense, tension diminished. Nevertheless, Dennis was not feeling pride in himself and the family for having successfully flown through this turbulence. But my father was always screaming at Will when Will was in trouble, so it’s possible that I was channeling his voice, as well.” I still don’t know what was going on for him, but I wish I had taken the time to ask.”