The Real Price Tag of Starting Over AloneHere is where it gets personal. The study found that starting over after a divorce in New York costs an estimated $3,934 when you factor in lost income, rent, and the security deposit needed to secure a new place to live. Why Two and a Half Weeks of Pay MattersFor the average New Yorker, that baseline price tag translates to about 2.39 weeks of pay. Finally, talk to a financial advisor or a specialized divorce financial analyst before signing any final asset division paperwork. Five Things Banned or Illegal in New York These are five things that New York has either banned or made illegal in recent history.