A therapist explains the red flags and real intentionsThe term “lovebombing” has become a buzzword in today’s conversations about modern relationships. How lovebombing worksHere’s how the lovebombing pattern usually plays out:Step 1: IdealizationYou’re showered with praise, affection and attention. Step 3: Withdrawal or ControlOnce you’re emotionally invested, the tone may shift. Red flags of lovebombingIt can be hard to spot lovebombing when you’re in the middle of it. Therapy offers a dedicated, supportive space to explore your feelings, sort through red flags and understand what healthy love looks like for you.