She’s been married to her husband, Mick*, for five years. They typically have sex two times a week on average, although they’re currently trying for a second baby, so intimacy is heavily weighted towards Nicole’s fertile window. The pair are childhood sweethearts, having met when they were 13, and Nicole says their sex is still ‘meaningful, effortless and fun.’But trying for baby number two hasn’t come without its challenges. Miscarrying hasn’t changed the way Mick and I view sex, we still enjoy it, but initially talking about losing the baby was hard. I don’t have time to orgasm this time around – sex when you’re trying to conceive and trying to negotiate with a toddler’s bedtime can end up feeling a bit perfunctory.