— Cheating Husband’s Egregious Actions Torment SpouseYou can forgive your cheating husband and give him a second chance, but there’s no guarantee you won’t come to regret it. I think the fact that you weren’t having sex when your husband cheated on you is a mitigating factor. Did your husband know you would’ve been willing to explore new things with him before this all came out or is that something he knows now? I think the fact that you weren’t having sex when your husband cheated on you is a mitigating factor. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.