I did something stupid in 1998 and had sex in a hot tub. The urologist and my surgeon said there was nothing they could do to fix the problem. — Canadian Urgently Missing SexHaving penetrative sex in a hot tub is riskier than having sex on dry land or a damp mattress or a hard countertop. With that warning out of the way, CUMS, can I ask when you last spoke to a doctor about your condition? Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.