I am a proud kinkster in a city with a vibrant kink community, but I am worried that my community doesn’t know how quickly it could find itself at risk. I see friends grandstanding online about crackdowns on poppers, while ignoring broader attacks by the Trump administration on fundamental rights. Here's the single most important thing organizers of kink events can do: Keep organizing great events that bring even more people out. (A tip for activists: DO NOT treat people having fun at fetish events or parties like they’re doing something wrong. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.